Our group of seven ladies arrived in beautiful Sorgue on Saturday in great anticipation of a shopping extravaganza in our beautiful little town. Our private villa is in the center of the town and we can walk everywhere right out our door! The Sunday market is famous and is the biggest one in Provence.
While getting ready to go out into the fray one of our companions, Sharon, was acting strangely and we realized that she was suffering some kind of stroke. We called the ambulance and she was sent to a hospital in Avignon where they found that she had a massive blood clot in her brain. She was airlifted to another hospital in Marseille and they operated on her immediately. We finally connected with her husband in Texas and he was able to fly in the next day.
Only one of the ladies speaks French and it would have been impossible to navigate the French medical system without her on that first day and on successive days to try and locate her jewelry and wedding ring that dissapeared at the first hospital. She was also able to translate when the doctors would call us with details before Mark could arrive. Merci Leslie!!!
Marla, Sue and I have been staying at the hospital to help Mark work through all of this as the French doctors and staff spoke very little english. Between the 4 of us we tried to ask important questions as we tried to understand everrything.
Thank goodness Mark and Sharon have a medi jet insurance policy and the doctors finally allowed him to arrange to have her flown home on Thursday.
This has been a very sad and trying week as we all come to grips that our loving friend has massive brain damage and has been in a stage 3 coma, the worst number possible, and will never be the same. Her wonderful husband is now having to come to grips that he may have to "pull the plug" on his love. At least he will have family and her sister to be with him if that is the case once he gets her "home".
This has been such a journey of love and support and life's sometimes painful lessons of this life we lead on this earth we share. I'm thankful that our group of lifetime friends that gathered together, (from all over the country)for this trip have had each other for support and for the love that we all have for each other.
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Needless to say I have not been painting, but have hopes of finding some art therapy soon...Love to you all and those that believe in something please keep Sharon and Mark in your prayers.
Prayers for you all...the blessing is having good friends in times of trouble..
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Linda Demian
5/13/2014 11:17:46 pm
Total shock
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Richard
5/14/2014 05:43:33 am
Thanks Marianna and everyone else.....My love goes out to you all. ♥*´¨`*•.¸ॐ¸.•*´¨`*♥
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Marianna
5/15/2014 04:39:50 am
Thank you Richard!
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belinda hanks
5/14/2014 11:36:05 am
I'm glad you were all there with her.
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marianna
5/14/2014 04:14:29 pm
hello Belinda, you have been in our thoughts. Mark takes Sharon home today to the Mayo Clinic by Medi Jet. hugs...
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johnny fox
5/15/2014 12:37:19 am
You are ALL, such amazing women. My thoughts of love are being sent to Sharon & Mark and their family. Hugs from my heart to ALL.
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Marianna
5/15/2014 04:41:00 am
Thanks Johnny
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Peta
5/15/2014 04:34:19 am
So sorry to read about Sharron, but was pleased to know that you were all with her and able to help her - such good friends together.
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Mariana
5/15/2014 04:42:51 am
It's been really sad...I 'm so gald we had each other. Marla says hello.
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Rick and Barbara
5/15/2014 03:50:35 pm
Our prayers and our tears are flowing..thank you all for being there for Mark and Sharon...they both helped us so much with my brain tumor recovery at MRF. Thank you for writing this when all of us are searching for updates. Love to you all....
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Dave & Chris O'Neill
5/15/2014 10:57:04 pm
We just cannot believe it! she was soooo looking forward to this trip and painting! We am so very, very sad,.
We just don't know what to say.
Will this be forwarded to Mark to let him know how much we are all praying for Sharon and him?
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Jeanne Gibbons and Steven Guinn
5/15/2014 11:33:06 pm
Marianna, thank you for posting this...we are so very sad to hear the extent of Sharon's injuries. Of course we had hoped for better news in the updates.
Sharon is an inspiration to so many of us, living such a fearless and adventurous life.
We send our love to all of you, dear friends, who have been by Sharon's side. She could not have wished for better friends and travel companions. You are all amazing.
Mark, if you are able to read this...we hope that you and Sharon are feeling the love that is pouring out for both of you at this unbearably sad and difficult time.
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Ken Conoly & Kerry O'Neill
5/16/2014 01:42:46 am
So sorry to hear this terrible news, please give Sharon our love and let us know if there's anything we can do from here, to help.
Ken
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Marianna
Artist, Wife, Mother, Oma, Traveler and Mountain Dweller in Search of the Meaning of Life...My Version of it Anyway!